The first year of marriage: what to expect

The celebrations end, and real life begins. The first year of marriage is full of adjustments — most of them small, all of them easier when you talk about them.

Adjusting to a new home

Whether you live with family or on your own, it takes time to learn new routines. Be patient with yourself and with each other.

Building relationships with in-laws

• Take an interest in family traditions and stories
• Ask for advice — people love to be asked
• Set boundaries politely and together as a couple

Managing money as a couple

Decide early how you will manage expenses, savings and support for parents. Review it together every few months.

Keep talking

Most problems in the first year come from assumptions. A quick, honest conversation solves more than silence ever will.